The art of sex does not only require a strong physique, fitness, smart and curvy bodies. It also needs depth in mutual understanding, emotional attachment, warm feelings of caring and sharing for the spouse, erotic synchronization and true intimate love between two persons of opposite gender. The art of sex is not a time-bound activity. It is, in actual fact, a process of taking yourself to the height of heart-felt delight along with your partner. If the sole purpose of engaging in sex is enjoying it mutually, then you have to change your thinking pattern to that of a team-player.
There are still millions of married people around the globe, male spouses in particular, who just take sex as a pleasure-oriented ritual. They do not care about whether their soul-mates also enjoy the same level of physical union as they do. It is merely because their primary focus is initiating intromission, as soon as two nude bodies touch each other, to achieve orgasm. They do not understand the essence of the art of sex in marriage.
Marriage is a journey that you are bound to continue, on every single track of life whether it is social, financial, personal or sexual, in maximum harmony. Sex is neither the only activity of a marital relationship nor an occasional expedition. The art of sex is a combination of techniques, physical gestures, creative movements and a mutual desire to experience gratifying contentment. You do not have to be a qualified sexologist to learn the art of sex. Simply adopting and practicing the following hot tips can bring a sensational change in your sex life.
1. Be patient and avoid early intromission
Two exercises are very useful in building stamina; sit-ups for men and kaegel exercise for women to delay orgasm and it makes your sex more thrilling and rocking.
2. Prolong foreplay and delay touching genitalia at an early stage
The art of sex begins with foreplay that is more sensational and enjoyable in the whole episode of sex. You can enjoy every moment of foreplay provided you stop focusing on orgasm. Every part of human body, both male and female, has certain hot spots which erotically react to kissing and soft touching.
3. Try brushing kisses on erogenous zones before indulging in full kissing
Depending on the structure of the tissues of your lips, you can experiment brushing kisses on the whole body of your spouse or just on erogenous zones. The sizzling effect of a prickling tongue smoothly massaging your spouse's body creates waves of incredible sensation through your own body too.
4. Use finger tips for soft caressing
Instead of using the whole hands, try soft caressing with finger tips that also radiate stirring currents of erotic energy.
5. Never skip a tongue massage during foreplay
Another colossal feature of the art of sex is tongue massage that runs from face to toes, using both the tip and the whole of your tongue, after taking a shower together. It would be like adding more spices to your pasta dish. I strongly suggest to avoid extreme oral sex during tongue massage. You can create many new body gestures to allure and appease your partner during foreplay making it a cherished experience for days and weeks. The only important factor in enjoying foreplay is synchronization of movements. It should be reciprocal to keep the fire continuously kindled.
The art of sex has no fixed limits and it is not worth much consideration as to where to start the foreplay. Just follow your emotions, your moods and the nature of ambiance which you have created or you are in by chance. It is advisable to have in-depth talks about foreplay that would also enhance an erotic rapport between both of you.
Laala Gull is a social worker, freelance writer, poet, street photographer and blogger. Loves to mentor young love-birds helping them resolve their serious issues through mutual communication. Laala's main focus is to save relationships particularly friendships and marriages. Laala is also working with volunteers taking care of special children particularly autistic and cancer patients. Laala would soon be posting articles covering variety of subjects on a recently created blog http://www.care2caress.blogspot.com He could be contacted through laalagull@gmail.com
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